No matter how this has/had happened to you, this is a proper grief and a proper loss. I have experienced it 3 times, and tried to avoid the grief as much as I could. I just wanted to go back to my normal life, I just wanted to get pregnant very soon and let go. Yes I prayed, I did rituals and I named my babies, yet I didn't grief them until the pain was so strong that I could not but listen to it. I hope you are wiser and you get lot's of help, I hope you have someone who can take care of you and that can listen to you. Even if the child was lost ages ago and you still need to contact that sacred wonderful yet horrible space. Well I am here, with my open heart and arms, to share with you some expertise and counselling, but, above all, to share my total understanding and empathy. I have complete trust that you will be fine and that you will be surprisingly strong and I will be honoured to assist you in your wonderful strength and inner wisdom, ready to come out and heal a powerful scar with a gentle balm called Self Love.
Again been there, done that. I am actually still there... I have tried the natural ways, the medical ways, all the possible fertility diets, suggestions, tips, angels reading, reiki sessions, theta healing, counselling, I have experienced several moments in which I gave up, to come back again. I have clients who get pregnant thanks also to my sessions, knowledge and healing, I have clients who don't. What is the key of success I actually don't know. But I know one thing, I can be here for you, I can help you find out what is the best way for you to get your body-mind-emotion system in balance and I can pray with you, for you that life will bless you with a child. I know what it is to be in the deepest of the desperation, I know what it means to get your menses after you miscarried. I know what it means to wait years for getting pregnant and than loosing it... the meaning of this is that I AM HERE FOR YOU because I think I can help.
Sisters in Helping
Yes I had followed many women and some men going through these paths, and it is not always easy. You need to be objective, integer and honest, yet hopeful, graceful, optimistic and rooted. You need to keep the space.
You need to be connected to your emotions, yet you have to keep your s***t together.
You need to know if you really want to be there for this or that case, maybe not, then you better say NO, I can't, but I have a great colleague that will be able to help you. Sometimes you need to hang in there.
Sometimes you just need to talk, scream and cry. And this is fine too.
Most of the time our job is fun and is wonderful, sometimes though it is not.
Do you need to talk about it? Do you need an experienced hear and heart?
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